What do I wear if I'm getting married but don't want to dress like a bride?

Another popular question from the most recent open thread

What would you wear to your wedding if you didn’t care what anyone else thought? This question isn’t an invitation to wear that outfit necessarily (unless, you know what the answer is and really want to wear it — in which case, fuck yeah!), but it is one to consider if you’re getting married and don’t want to feel like a “bride.”

Every few years, I revis…