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"The only right goal to have for your life is to live it honestly, how you want to, with purpose and a shit load of pride." I love this. For whatever reason, at 50, I am having so much fun talking and learning style on my @heymrssolomon instagram, live + in posts. (A side of happiness to my happy owning/running of a business.) Yet my friend thinks this is ridiculous. Embarrassing even. But it makes me feel joy ... and feel "me"!

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I feel uou. Had a convo w a friend recently about being torn between depth and joy, as if the two are mutually exclusive. She said that in some ways calling fashion frivolous is very patriarchal. It was so right on

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YES to that! And why minimize each other when there's the patriarchy out there doing it for us? I remember a relationship where he said he was driving a Mack truck of our future and I was circling around on a tricycle with my concerns. That was the end of it, that comment.

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December 19, 2021
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You should your mental insides to more ppl!! I am one of the lucky recipients of your DMs but there is good stuff in that head of yours !!!

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looking for you on Pinterest now!

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Yup. A specific circus highlight was the woman who came from a family of bear trainers who now trains those wonderful dachshunds. That seems like a smart, personal pivot to me.

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Perfect

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I love this!

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